About the characteristics of the developmental disability spectrum.
There are many, but I am what is called a passive type.
There are some major characteristics when I was a child, so if you have children, please refer to them.
My mother told me that I was always alone, silently playing by myself.
I didn’t have anything in particular to say; it was enough to listen to what others had to say. I was often asked by people if I had any opinions of my own. The reason I listened to my mother even though I didn’t want to was because I knew I was the only person she had to talk to, so I put up with it. The only thing my mother talked about was complaining. I felt sorry for her. My siblings were fed up and didn’t want to deal with her. I wondered why my siblings didn’t take care of my mother when I could help her just by listening to her. I wanted my siblings to help me because I was tired of dealing with my mother so often.
Now that I think about it, I was trapped. I should have run away from my mother, but I held back.
Thanks to her, I was barely able to deal with my mother as an adult. There are other factors, but if the child is a quiet child and the mother is lonely, the mother should consciously avoid relieving her stress on the child because it puts a burden on the child. The parent-child relationship becomes co-dependent. This is bad for the child’s development. Just being around my mother gave me a headache, and I was terrified that she would worry about me.
People make the mistake of thinking that meekness means they get their way. Children are rarely aware of this fact. Adults have to be careful.
It is still difficult for me to express my opinion to someone. I don’t know when is the right time. I guess I should be brave.
I was able to tell my mother the other day what I didn’t like about her. It didn’t improve the relationship, but it gave me some confidence that I was making progress.
If there is a challenge for us, it is the issue of caregiving. If I could call her and she could take a walk, we might be able to avoid dementia. But how can I do that? I still feel depressed to hear my mother’s voice.
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